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| Web worries after suicide spate | Web worries after suicide spate |
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| Social networking websites could be "romanticising" suicide, an MP claims after the deaths of seven young people from her area in the past year. | |
| Last week Natasha Randall, 17, was found hanged at her home near Bridgend and a girl who is believed to know her self-harmed a day later. | |
| South Wales Police are investigating if they had made contact on the internet, by e-mail or on a networking site. | |
| Bridgend MP Madeleine Moon will raise internet use issues with police. | Bridgend MP Madeleine Moon will raise internet use issues with police. |
| She will air her concerns at a meeting of a focus group, which includes the police and members of the local health trust, schools and council. | |
| Mrs Moon said she was growing increasingly worried by the appearance of so-called "memory walls" on networking sites like Bebo, where members leave messages to mark the death of a friend. | Mrs Moon said she was growing increasingly worried by the appearance of so-called "memory walls" on networking sites like Bebo, where members leave messages to mark the death of a friend. |
| "The worrying part about internet sites is it is a virtual world - it isn't a real world," she said | "The worrying part about internet sites is it is a virtual world - it isn't a real world," she said |
| "The things that happen there don't necessarily demonstrate the consequences. | "The things that happen there don't necessarily demonstrate the consequences. |
| Somehow we're not reaching out to some of our very vulnerable young people and explaining to them that life offers lots of opportunities Madeleine Moon, Bridgend MP | Somehow we're not reaching out to some of our very vulnerable young people and explaining to them that life offers lots of opportunities Madeleine Moon, Bridgend MP |
| "I'm particularly concerned about this false romanticism of the memory wall that seems to have set up on Bebo giving some sort of romantic idea of suicide and not conveying the huge tragedy and wasted lives that we are looking at here," she told BBC Radio Wales. | "I'm particularly concerned about this false romanticism of the memory wall that seems to have set up on Bebo giving some sort of romantic idea of suicide and not conveying the huge tragedy and wasted lives that we are looking at here," she told BBC Radio Wales. |
| Police investigating the latest incidents are trying to discover whether the girls had made contact on the internet, whether by e-mail or on a networking site. | Police investigating the latest incidents are trying to discover whether the girls had made contact on the internet, whether by e-mail or on a networking site. |
| Anne Parry, from the suicide prevention charity Papyrus, said she shared concerns about the influence of internet chatrooms and networking site. | Anne Parry, from the suicide prevention charity Papyrus, said she shared concerns about the influence of internet chatrooms and networking site. |
| "We've been running a campaign for the last three years to try to draw attention to the dangers of the internet," said Mrs Parry. | "We've been running a campaign for the last three years to try to draw attention to the dangers of the internet," said Mrs Parry. |
| "Social network sites can be particularly dangerous. | "Social network sites can be particularly dangerous. |
| 'Desperately concerned' | 'Desperately concerned' |
| "Of course they can give a lot of support to young people but they can also do quite the opposite and feed into suicidal feelings." | "Of course they can give a lot of support to young people but they can also do quite the opposite and feed into suicidal feelings." |
| Although some newspapers have likened the series of suicides in Bridgend to a "cult," Mrs Parry said: "I think it is dangerous to use words like this". | Although some newspapers have likened the series of suicides in Bridgend to a "cult," Mrs Parry said: "I think it is dangerous to use words like this". |
| However, she said the perils of networking sites should be recognised. | However, she said the perils of networking sites should be recognised. |
| "It can certainly influence people and perhaps in the wrong way, in an adverse way - there's no doubt about that." | "It can certainly influence people and perhaps in the wrong way, in an adverse way - there's no doubt about that." |
| They really need to speak to somebody, even if it's over the phone Melanie Davies, mother of Thomas, above | They really need to speak to somebody, even if it's over the phone Melanie Davies, mother of Thomas, above |
| Last summer, Bridgend coroner Philip Walters said he was "desperately concerned" about the number of suicides among young men in the Bridgend and south Wales valleys area. | Last summer, Bridgend coroner Philip Walters said he was "desperately concerned" about the number of suicides among young men in the Bridgend and south Wales valleys area. |
| One of those was 20-year-old Thomas Davies from North Cornelly, who hanged himself in February 2007. He had been friends with two other young, David Dilling, 19, and Dale Crole, 18, who had been found dead weeks earlier. | One of those was 20-year-old Thomas Davies from North Cornelly, who hanged himself in February 2007. He had been friends with two other young, David Dilling, 19, and Dale Crole, 18, who had been found dead weeks earlier. |
| Thomas' mother, Melanie Davies, said she had talked to her son about the deaths of his friends: "He was quite upset about Dai because he went to school with him. | Thomas' mother, Melanie Davies, said she had talked to her son about the deaths of his friends: "He was quite upset about Dai because he went to school with him. |
| "I said to him: 'You would never do that to me would you?'. | "I said to him: 'You would never do that to me would you?'. |
| "He said 'I'd never do that to you - I wouldn't hurt you mam'. I think it was a couple of days later that he did it." | "He said 'I'd never do that to you - I wouldn't hurt you mam'. I think it was a couple of days later that he did it." |
| Mrs Davies has urged young people to seek help - rather than take often tragic actions. | Mrs Davies has urged young people to seek help - rather than take often tragic actions. |
| "For the kids, I think they should talk to somebody, even if it's a stranger. They really need to speak to somebody, even if it's over the phone." | "For the kids, I think they should talk to somebody, even if it's a stranger. They really need to speak to somebody, even if it's over the phone." |
| The Bridgend MP said all the issues surrounding the deaths will be raised when the focus group meets on Friday. | The Bridgend MP said all the issues surrounding the deaths will be raised when the focus group meets on Friday. |
| "There's something underneath the surface that we don't understand," said Mrs Moon. | "There's something underneath the surface that we don't understand," said Mrs Moon. |
| "Somehow we're not reaching out to some of our very vulnerable young people and explaining to them that life offers lots of opportunities. | "Somehow we're not reaching out to some of our very vulnerable young people and explaining to them that life offers lots of opportunities. |
| "There are tough time and also there are huge emotionally stressed times in life, but that is part of living - it is not the reason to end your life." | "There are tough time and also there are huge emotionally stressed times in life, but that is part of living - it is not the reason to end your life." |
| Bebo has been asked to respond to Mrs Moon's comments. | Bebo has been asked to respond to Mrs Moon's comments. |