Should I tell my new boyfriend that I cheated on my ex?

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I am 26 years old and, up until a few months ago, was engaged to be married to my wonderful partner of four years. I loved him very much, but towards the end of our relationship, I am ashamed to admit I treated him appallingly. I had a few drunken encounters with men (not sex, just kissing). Each time it happened, I told him about it immediately, and each time, although hurt and angry, he was (too) understanding, putting it down to my deep-seated insecurities and depression.

While I am not excusing my actions, at the time I was going through a very tough period. I was receiving counselling to come to terms with these issues. However, I eventually decided enough was enough, my partner deserved better than to be with me, and I ended our relationship. It was very difficult but I realised it was best for both of us.

I have since been on a period of self-discovery and am trying to understand why I behaved like I did. I am receiving therapy and feel I am coming through the other side. I have recently met someone else whom I like very much. We haven’t discussed previous relationships yet, but I worry what my response should be when the conversation comes up. I couldn’t lie, but should I volunteer the information?

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