Western feminists should speak up for the kidnapped Nigerian girls
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Version 0 of 1. The other day on the bus, I overheard two former classmates, who had bumped into one another, systematically listing everyone they had been to school with who had since got married, or had babies. Those from outside London will sometimes forget that it is a city formed of communities, that, at the base of it, each area is little more than a village made up of people with shared histories and lives. "Georgia's married too," said the girl. The guy expressed surprise: "How old is she?" "She's 19," the girl replied. "That's too young," he said. In the UK, many would agree that 19 is too young to make a lasting, consensual commitment to another human being. But across the world, in another village, "too young" is more than an unthinking aside made during a gossiping session. As far as the leader of Islamist extremist group Boko Haram is concerned, however, 19 is 10 years over the hill. In a video released yesterday, he spoke of plans to sell the 270 kidnapped Nigerian teenage girls into slavery. "I will marry off a girl at the age of nine," he said. If anyone needed proof that there are men in this world who hold wells of hatred for women so deep that they believe there is justification in their systematic rape, torture and imprisonment, then this is it. This man grins out from the screen-grabbed footage as he declares that "women are slaves" in the name of Islam. It goes without saying that there is no justification, in religion or culture or ideology, for this barbaric slavery of forced child marriage, a practice that affects 10 million children worldwide. Iraqi laws put the age of puberty at nine years old; Yemen has no minimum age for marriage; India has 40% of the world's child brides. It is a massive and enduring problem that has been brought into sharp relief by the tragedy in Nigeria. The kidnap of the estimated 270 girls is shameful, sickening and horrifying. It is every condemnatory adjective we have, as is Nigeria's embarrassing failure to take any action to save them. As western feminists, we have a duty to stand in solidarity with these girls, their mothers, and their fathers. I don't know anyone who would fail to condemn these atrocities, but there is perhaps a small reluctance to get involved, for fear of interfering, for appropriating the struggles of others, or for failing to understand the relevant cultural and religious politics. It's perhaps easier to stick to what we know, to casual sexism, boardroom quotas and gendered marketing, than it is to confront this issue of slavery, forced marriage, and child rape that is distant and profoundly revolting. The aforementioned western feminist struggles are all important issues, of course, but I think it is fair to say that we can afford to park them for the time being. It is my view that there is a case for military assistance, but on a more basic level, there are things that we can do to support those who are begging for help. The British feminist movement has immense social media clout. We can all follow the Facebook group Bring Back Our Girls and use the hashtag. We can write to our world leaders, demanding that they offer assistance to rescue the girls. We can organise rallies and marches locally, as many others already have. We can support and listen to the Nigerian community here in the UK. I wish these girls had our freedom; the freedom to move around their own villages; to sit on a bus in the years to come and gossip about their schoolfriends. The freedom to think that 19 is too young. As Bring Back Our Girls say themselves, likes alone are not enough. |