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Amid heightened expectations that a male athlete in one of North America’s major professional leagues will soon publicly declare his homosexuality, the National Hockey League and its players announced Thursday what appears to be the most comprehensive measure by a major men’s league in support of gay athletes. With growing expectations in recent weeks that a gay male athlete for a major professional sports team in the United States will soon come out publicly for the first time, the leagues have begun exploring ways to accommodate and respond to such a landmark announcement.
The N.H.L. said it had formed a partnership with the You Can Play Project, an advocacy group pledged to fight homophobia in sports, and planned training and counseling on gay issues for its teams and players. The National Hockey League and its players announced Thursday what appears to be the most comprehensive measure by a major men’s league in support of gay athletes. The National Football League is working with gay advocacy groups to smooth the way for acceptance and to discuss how to prepare for the moment when one of its players publicly discusses his homosexuality.
A gay male athlete for a major professional sports team in the United States has yet to come out publicly. “It’s the last closet in America and one of most important ones,” said Brian Ellner, a board member for Athlete Ally, an organization that supports gay athletes. The N.F.L. player Brendon Ayanbadejo, who has become something of an unofficial spokesman for the acceptance of gay players, has suggested repeatedly that there are a number of closeted active players in several sports who might eventually come out.
Other major leagues — the National Football League, Major League Soccer, the National Basketball Association and Major League Baseball — have policies that prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation, and various officials have spoken in support of gay athletes. But no league seems to have taken such a strong public stance on the issue. “The thing is, we’re in contact with several players,” Ayanbadejo, who was recently released by the Baltimore Ravens and is unsure if his playing career is over, said in an interview this week. “I’m not going to name numbers. Several gay players in more sports than just football, and what we’re trying to facilitate is to get them together and do what they want to do, do what is right for them.”
Patrick Burke, a scout for the Philadelphia Flyers and a founder of You Can Play, said the demographics of the N.H.L., with so many players from Canada and Northern Europe, were part of the reason the league had taken such a step. The N.H.L. said it had formed a partnership with the You Can Play Project — an advocacy group pledged to fighting homophobia in sports — to plan training and counseling on gay issues for its teams and players.
“We have players from around the world, and a lot of those players are from countries that are seen as more progressive on LGBT issues,” Burke said. “So I don’t think it’s unreasonable or strange to think that the N.H.L. and the N.H.L.P.A. are driving this, in part because our players tend to be more comfortable with this issue.” Other major leagues — the N.F.L., Major League Soccer, the National Basketball Association and Major League Baseball — have policies that prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation, and various officials have spoken in support of gay athletes. The N.B.A. recently sent a memo to teams reminding them that interviews with players entering the N.B.A. draft should not include questions about religion, race and sexual orientation.
Burke added that laying the groundwork for an openly gay player was not an official part of the program. “This has been our policy for years and we strongly support the N.H.L.’s approach to it, and it’s our fervent hope that this draws less attention, not more, when a player eventually comes out,” David Stern, the N.B.A.’s commissioner, said. “We’ve included training in our rookie program, worked with GLSEN,” the Gay, Lesbian and Straight Education Network, “and Grant Hill and Steve Nash have done television spots. We’ve made our views known to players who have expressed inappropriate views.”
“But we’re ready to do whatever that player wants,” he said. “If he wants to do a thousand interviews and march in pride parades, we’re equipped to handle that. And if he wants us to pass-block for him so he never has to do another interview in his life, we’re equipped to handle that, too.” Patrick Burke, a scout for the Philadelphia Flyers and a founder of You Can Play, which was formed in March 2012, said the demographics of the N.H.L., with so many players from Canada and Northern Europe, were part of the reason the league had taken such a step.
You Can Play will help run seminars for N.H.L. rookies to educate them on gay issues and make resources and personnel available to each team, as desired. The league and union will also work with You Can Play to integrate the project into their behavioral health program, enabling players to seek counseling regarding matters of sexual orientation confidentially. Burke said the joint venture would also step forward when players make homophobic remarks. “We have players from around the world, and a lot of those players are from countries that are seen as more progressive on L.G.B.T. issues,” Mr. Burke said. “So I don’t think it’s unreasonable or strange to think that the N.H.L. and the N.H.L.P.A. are driving this, in part because our players tend to be more comfortable with this issue.”
The N.F.L. has had internal conversations about how to prepare for the moment when one of its players publicly discusses his homosexuality. Mr. Burke added that laying the groundwork for an openly gay player was not an official part of the program.
Officials said the N.F.L.’s security department would monitor public reaction, looking for potential threats from fans. Troy Vincent, a former player who is now the league’s executive charged with player engagement, and Anna Isaacson, the league’s community relations director, have been designated to cull ideas from gay advocacy groups about what could be done to smooth the way for acceptance and to build relationships with the groups that the N.F.L. might then use to help them address players. “But we’re ready to do whatever that player wants,” he said. “If he wants to do a thousand interviews and march in pride parades, we’re equipped to handle that. And if he wants us to pass block for him so he never has to do another interview in his life, we’re equipped to handle that, too.”
The ideas raised by advocacy groups are myriad — could the league order stadiums to stop jokingly training their “kiss cams” on two men, for instance. Much of the conversation has centered on the league’s rookie symposium, a convention for incoming players, and the training of what the N.F.L. calls ambassadors, former players who can deliver key messages the league believes are important. You Can Play will help run seminars for N.H.L. rookies to educate them on gay issues and make resources and personnel available to each team, as desired. The league and the players’ union will also work with You Can Play to integrate the project into their behavioral health program, enabling players to seek counseling regarding matters of sexual orientation confidentially. Mr. Burke said the joint venture would also step forward when players make homophobic remarks.
“We are in active discussions with LGBT partners,” said Robert Gulliver, the league’s top human resources executive. “We do want to sensitize incoming rookies as to how important it is to pay attention to LGBT issues, so people have an appreciation for some of the sensitive LGBT issues that are very topical right now in the league.” In the N.F.L., the league’s security department has been assigned to monitor public reaction, looking for potential threats from fans. Troy Vincent, a former player who is now the league’s executive charged with player engagement, and Anna Isaacson, the league’s community relations director, have been designated to cull ideas from gay advocacy groups and to build relationships with the groups that the N.F.L. might then use to help them address players.
The ideas raised by advocacy groups are myriad: could the N.F.L. order stadiums to stop jokingly training their “kiss cams” on two men, for instance. Much of the conversation has centered on the league’s rookie symposium, a convention for incoming players, and the training of what the N.F.L. calls ambassadors, former players who can deliver key messages the league believes are important.
“We are in active discussions with L.G.B.T. partners,” said Robert Gulliver, the league’s top human resources executive. “We do want to sensitize incoming rookies as to how important it is to pay attention to L.G.B.T. issues, so people have an appreciation for some of the sensitive L.G.B.T. issues that are very topical right now in the league.”
During a recent meeting with league officials and three organizations — Athlete Ally, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation and You Can Play — Wade Davis, a former N.F.L. player who has come out and is now on You Can Play’s advisory board, suggested closed-door meetings with players at which they could freely ask questions about having a gay teammate.During a recent meeting with league officials and three organizations — Athlete Ally, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation and You Can Play — Wade Davis, a former N.F.L. player who has come out and is now on You Can Play’s advisory board, suggested closed-door meetings with players at which they could freely ask questions about having a gay teammate.
Davis acknowledged that because many N.F.L. players are deeply religious, open conversations about how their religious beliefs impact their feelings about gay players are necessary. Mr. Davis acknowledged that because many N.F.L. players are deeply religious, open conversations about how their religious beliefs impact their feelings about gay players are necessary.
“The players are the ones who are going to have to interact with this first out gay athlete,” Davis said. “Instead of pushing anything on them, let’s have an honest conversation. Even if somebody has a different opinion, their opinion is valid. One great thing about sports culture is the locker room is a PC-free zone. So players will say anything with the understanding they are family. That’s where you have to start from.” “The players are the ones who are going to have to interact with this first out gay athlete,” Mr. Davis said. “Instead of pushing anything on them, let’s have an honest conversation. Even if somebody has a different opinion, their opinion is valid. One great thing about sports culture is the locker room is a P.C.-free zone. So players will say anything with the understanding they are family. That’s where you have to start from.”
Some N.F.L. team owners have taken public positions in the broader issue of gay rights. Steve Tisch, a co-owner of the Giants, was part of the campaign in support of same-sex marriage in New York. The Patriots’ Robert K. Kraft is a longtime supporter of gay causes. He said he thought the N.F.L. was ready for a gay player who chose to come out.Some N.F.L. team owners have taken public positions in the broader issue of gay rights. Steve Tisch, a co-owner of the Giants, was part of the campaign in support of same-sex marriage in New York. The Patriots’ Robert K. Kraft is a longtime supporter of gay causes. He said he thought the N.F.L. was ready for a gay player who chose to come out.
“We know with our team, can someone help us win? We’re about winning,” Kraft said. “And anyone who can come to our team and help us win is going to be accepted and welcomed. How is the world not ready?” “We know with our team, can someone help us win? We’re about winning,” Mr. Kraft said. “And anyone who can come to our team and help us win is going to be accepted and welcomed. How is the world not ready?”
The N.F.L. player Brendon Ayanbadejo has become something of an unofficial spokesman for the acceptance of gay players. He attended the recent meeting with the N.F.L. and has suggested repeatedly that there are a number of closeted active players in several sports who might eventually come out. Mr. Ayanbadejo attended the recent meeting with the N.F.L. He said that since last week, “a couple of more players” seeking guidance and connection had called Athlete Ally, the organization that supports gay athletes with which he is most closely affiliated. He said he is aware of “more than a handful” of gay players.
“The thing is, we’re in contact with several players,” Ayanbadejo, who was recently released by the Baltimore Ravens and is unsure if his playing career is over, said in an interview this week. “I’m not going to name numbers. Several gay players in more sports than just football, and what we’re trying to facilitate is to get them together and do what they want to do, do what is right for them.” Mr. Ayanbadejo said that a loose consortium of supporters — including former athletes in several sports who came out after their careers were over, psychologists and friends — were trying to help put those players in touch with one another. What happens after that, he said, is up to them.
Ayanbadejo said that after his comments last week, “a couple of more players” had called Athlete Ally, the organization that supports gay athletes with which he is most closely affiliated, seeking guidance and connection. He said there is “more than a handful now” of gay players of whom he is aware. “As far as what happens, none of that is coordinated,” he said. “It’s going to be on their times, their terms. The only thing coordinated is support, them being able to talk to other athletes who have been in their shoes. We want to put them together, and we can be there to support them in whatever they want to do.”
Ayanbadejo said that a loose consortium of supporters — including former athletes in several sports who came out after their careers were over, psychologists and friends — were trying to help put those players in touch with one another. What happens after that, he said, is up to them.
“As far as what happens, none of that is coordinated,” he said. “It’s going to be on their times, their terms. The only thing coordinated is support, them being able to talk to other athletes who have been in their shoes. We want to put them together and we can be there to support them in whatever they want to do.”