Young mum says thanks to carer

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As millions celebrate Mother's Day a young mother whose son has grown up with her in foster care has paid tribute to the woman who helped them.

Donna Bishop was just 14 when she fell pregnant and after a difficult split with her birth mother, ended up being cared for by Diane Williams, 60.

Mrs Williams, from Pontypool, is a specialist carer who fosters young mothers and their babies.

Donna, 21, and son Jordan are still living with the Williams family.

Mrs Williams who has cared for four young mothers and their five children said: "I can remember the first day they came to stay with us.

Diane and Gareth have always been honest and fair with me Donna Bishop

"Donna was clearly a natural, caring mum but she was very suspicious of us and anyone in a position of authority.

"She had been through a very difficult period but over time we were able to establish a good relationship with her based on trust and mutual respect.

"It's incredible to think that was seven years ago and both Donna and Jordan are still with us.

"Foster children normally leave their carers when they reach the age of 18 but we're delighted that Donna and Jordan are still part of our family, we wouldn't have it any other way," she added.

Donna, who was originally from Merthyr Tydfil, said: "At first I was over-protective of Jordan and didn't want anybody to tell me how to look after him.

"But Diane and Gareth have always been honest and fair with me and over time we have built up a strong and loving bond."

Incredibly supportive

Donna has worked hard while caring for Jordan and is currently studying at college for a qualification in child care.

One day she hopes to become a foster carer herself.

"I owe so much to Diane and Gareth, they have been incredibly supportive," she said.

"They have helped me to raise Jordan and encouraged me to stay in education. I'd hate to think how things could have ended up for me and Jordan without them."

Peter Harlock, Chief Executive of Pathway Care with whom the Williams are foster carer, said they were "very proud" of them and Donna.

"We are currently expanding our capabilities to help foster carers like Mr and Mrs Williams who specialise in caring for mothers and their babies, " he said.

Mrs Williams said she was looking forward to a well-earned day off on Mother's Day.

She said: "Fostering isn't easy.

"It can be a demanding and challenging role that requires emotional strength and resilience, as does any family life, but it's ultimately the most rewarding profession in the world."