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It's never too late to apologise It's never too late to apologise
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THE BIG IDEA 60 seconds to change the world Can a simple idea help make the world a better place? Each week we ask a guest to outline an idea to improve all our lives. Here, Tom Perrotta suggests a national day for apologies. THE BIG IDEA 60 seconds to change the world Can a simple idea help make the world a better place? As top UK bankers say sorry in front of MPs for their part in the financial crisis, Tom Perrotta says we should all embrace the idea of a dedicated day for apologies.
I think the world would be a better place if we instituted two new holidays.I think the world would be a better place if we instituted two new holidays.
One of which I'd call "Grievance Day" and the other I would call "Apology Day".One of which I'd call "Grievance Day" and the other I would call "Apology Day".
On Grievance Day, anyone has the right to approach someone else and complain to them about some wrong they feel they've suffered at the hands of that person.On Grievance Day, anyone has the right to approach someone else and complain to them about some wrong they feel they've suffered at the hands of that person.
It could be a small grievance or it could be a large grievance. FROM BBC WORLD SERVICE More from The ForumDownload the 60 Second Podcast It could be a small grievance or it could be a large grievance. FROM BBC WORLD SERVICE More from The ForumDownload the 60 Second Podcast class="" href="/1/hi/business/7880292.stm">Former banking bosses say 'sorry'
The person who is receiving the complaint has to listen quietly with an open mind and just accept the grievance.The person who is receiving the complaint has to listen quietly with an open mind and just accept the grievance.
A three-month waiting period will go by after which, the person who apparently committed the wrong, will be able to respond.A three-month waiting period will go by after which, the person who apparently committed the wrong, will be able to respond.
That will be Apology Day - although they may not apologise and may have a response instead.That will be Apology Day - although they may not apologise and may have a response instead.
Sometimes we don't air these complaints that we have with other people and they can fester and become larger than they really are.Sometimes we don't air these complaints that we have with other people and they can fester and become larger than they really are.
A ritualised air-clearing is what the world needs to become a better place.A ritualised air-clearing is what the world needs to become a better place.
Tom Perrotta is an American writer and his latest novel is called, "The Abstinence Teacher".Tom Perrotta is an American writer and his latest novel is called, "The Abstinence Teacher".


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