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It's never too late to apologise | It's never too late to apologise |
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THE BIG IDEA 60 seconds to change the world Can a simple idea help make the world a better place? As top UK bankers say sorry in front of MPs for their part in the financial crisis, Tom Perrotta says we should all embrace the idea of a dedicated day for apologies. | |
I think the world would be a better place if we instituted two new holidays. | I think the world would be a better place if we instituted two new holidays. |
One of which I'd call "Grievance Day" and the other I would call "Apology Day". | One of which I'd call "Grievance Day" and the other I would call "Apology Day". |
On Grievance Day, anyone has the right to approach someone else and complain to them about some wrong they feel they've suffered at the hands of that person. | On Grievance Day, anyone has the right to approach someone else and complain to them about some wrong they feel they've suffered at the hands of that person. |
It could be a small grievance or it could be a large grievance. FROM BBC WORLD SERVICE More from The ForumDownload the 60 Second Podcast class="" href="/1/hi/business/7880292.stm">Former banking bosses say 'sorry' | |
The person who is receiving the complaint has to listen quietly with an open mind and just accept the grievance. | The person who is receiving the complaint has to listen quietly with an open mind and just accept the grievance. |
A three-month waiting period will go by after which, the person who apparently committed the wrong, will be able to respond. | A three-month waiting period will go by after which, the person who apparently committed the wrong, will be able to respond. |
That will be Apology Day - although they may not apologise and may have a response instead. | That will be Apology Day - although they may not apologise and may have a response instead. |
Sometimes we don't air these complaints that we have with other people and they can fester and become larger than they really are. | Sometimes we don't air these complaints that we have with other people and they can fester and become larger than they really are. |
A ritualised air-clearing is what the world needs to become a better place. | A ritualised air-clearing is what the world needs to become a better place. |
Tom Perrotta is an American writer and his latest novel is called, "The Abstinence Teacher". | Tom Perrotta is an American writer and his latest novel is called, "The Abstinence Teacher". |
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