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In Spain, Children Still Can’t Go Outside In Spain, Children Still Can’t Go Outside
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“Zizzer zay zay!” my toddler demands, running around the kitchen brandishing a wooden spoon. Since the lockdown, we’ve made lasagna twice. He became instantly addicted, except he can’t quite pronounce the word. “We’ll make more soon,” I promise. “Zizzer zay zaaaaaaay!” he shrieks, stomping with rage. If I remember one word from this pandemic, this will be the one.“Zizzer zay zay!” my toddler demands, running around the kitchen brandishing a wooden spoon. Since the lockdown, we’ve made lasagna twice. He became instantly addicted, except he can’t quite pronounce the word. “We’ll make more soon,” I promise. “Zizzer zay zaaaaaaay!” he shrieks, stomping with rage. If I remember one word from this pandemic, this will be the one.
In mid-March, the prime minister of Spain issued a nationwide order for all residents to self-isolate. The country has been on lockdown since, with some of the toughest measures implemented by any government, specifically for kids. Restrictions are military-enforced. Outings for all nonessential workers are limited to buying food or medical supplies, or walking dogs, briefly. Exercise or excursions outside the home are strictly forbidden, and children have been locked up since the start. As of this week, Spain is beginning to loosen some restrictions for workers and business owners. But children remain unable to leave their homes.In mid-March, the prime minister of Spain issued a nationwide order for all residents to self-isolate. The country has been on lockdown since, with some of the toughest measures implemented by any government, specifically for kids. Restrictions are military-enforced. Outings for all nonessential workers are limited to buying food or medical supplies, or walking dogs, briefly. Exercise or excursions outside the home are strictly forbidden, and children have been locked up since the start. As of this week, Spain is beginning to loosen some restrictions for workers and business owners. But children remain unable to leave their homes.
Two weeks in, our days already felt nothing but repetitive — a bad version of “Groundhog Day” set firmly inside a suburban home 20 miles outside the Mediterranean city of Valencia, starring one potty-training, tantrum-mastering toddler son, one sweet-and-sour tween daughter constantly craving sushi, and two working-from-home parents whose nearest friends and relatives are thousands of miles away.Two weeks in, our days already felt nothing but repetitive — a bad version of “Groundhog Day” set firmly inside a suburban home 20 miles outside the Mediterranean city of Valencia, starring one potty-training, tantrum-mastering toddler son, one sweet-and-sour tween daughter constantly craving sushi, and two working-from-home parents whose nearest friends and relatives are thousands of miles away.
Soon after the initial lockdown, the government announced, in updated rules, that kids could accompany one parent to the supermarket, which we misunderstood. This leeway only applies to single parents. On my tween’s one traumatic food-shopping trip — a mistake — my husband, who was driving, was stopped leaving the store and interrogated by the police. We got lucky — residents have been fined up to 30,000 euros for breaking the rules. You’ll also be interrogated and fined for shopping too far from your home; you’re supposed to stick to your closest store options. If you need to travel farther because of food allergies or dietary restrictions, you’ll need a doctor’s diagnosis in hand.Soon after the initial lockdown, the government announced, in updated rules, that kids could accompany one parent to the supermarket, which we misunderstood. This leeway only applies to single parents. On my tween’s one traumatic food-shopping trip — a mistake — my husband, who was driving, was stopped leaving the store and interrogated by the police. We got lucky — residents have been fined up to 30,000 euros for breaking the rules. You’ll also be interrogated and fined for shopping too far from your home; you’re supposed to stick to your closest store options. If you need to travel farther because of food allergies or dietary restrictions, you’ll need a doctor’s diagnosis in hand.
Without the freedom to walk down the block, bike or even joy ride past the crashing waves along the shore — to smell the salty air through open car windows — there’s an increasing sense of being jailed. But in my local online parenting group, no one complains. Fear is pervasive.Without the freedom to walk down the block, bike or even joy ride past the crashing waves along the shore — to smell the salty air through open car windows — there’s an increasing sense of being jailed. But in my local online parenting group, no one complains. Fear is pervasive.
The coronavirus death rate in Spain is staggering and paralyzing. “Sacrifice” is a word I’ve heard thrown around, and I’m all for it. We all wish to contribute and to help stop this pandemic. And yet sitting still isn’t productive, and locking kids up hasn’t been deemed necessary in densely populated cities like Paris, Berlin or New York.The coronavirus death rate in Spain is staggering and paralyzing. “Sacrifice” is a word I’ve heard thrown around, and I’m all for it. We all wish to contribute and to help stop this pandemic. And yet sitting still isn’t productive, and locking kids up hasn’t been deemed necessary in densely populated cities like Paris, Berlin or New York.
It’s just been announced that schools will remain closed for the rest of this academic year. And although there’s now a task force assigned to advise when and how kids may regain some freedom of movement, it has yet to offer anything concrete.It’s just been announced that schools will remain closed for the rest of this academic year. And although there’s now a task force assigned to advise when and how kids may regain some freedom of movement, it has yet to offer anything concrete.
A petition circulating on Change.org, calling for empathy and respect of children in Spain during the pandemic, has generated more than 50,000 signatures. “Although they’re full-fledged citizens, our girls and boys are not only confined to their homes, but their needs and rights have disappeared from the public debate around this crisis. It’s as if they did not exist,” the petition states. It goes on to call for “the possibility of being outdoors, receiving the sunlight” and begs for a comparison with the ways other European Union governments have taken kids’ health and rights into account at this time, including Germany, France and the Netherlands.A petition circulating on Change.org, calling for empathy and respect of children in Spain during the pandemic, has generated more than 50,000 signatures. “Although they’re full-fledged citizens, our girls and boys are not only confined to their homes, but their needs and rights have disappeared from the public debate around this crisis. It’s as if they did not exist,” the petition states. It goes on to call for “the possibility of being outdoors, receiving the sunlight” and begs for a comparison with the ways other European Union governments have taken kids’ health and rights into account at this time, including Germany, France and the Netherlands.
At stores selling food, any “nonessential” items, including baby clothes or kids’ shoes, are roped off. When our son needed underpants, I had to turn to Amazon and wait about 10 days to get them (which is a very long time for a child who is transitioning out of diapers). “I have balls,” the 2-year-old has been announcing, bottomless, to the embarrassment of any callers beaming into our home, and to our tween’s endless amusement.At stores selling food, any “nonessential” items, including baby clothes or kids’ shoes, are roped off. When our son needed underpants, I had to turn to Amazon and wait about 10 days to get them (which is a very long time for a child who is transitioning out of diapers). “I have balls,” the 2-year-old has been announcing, bottomless, to the embarrassment of any callers beaming into our home, and to our tween’s endless amusement.
Before the lockdown, we were already isolated, having recently moved from Brooklyn to the foothills of the Sierra Calderona. Here, our neighbors are mostly stray cats, cactuses and citrus farmers who sell artichokes by the kilo on the side for a couple of bucks and orange wood for cooking paella the traditional way. At 8 each night, when the world bangs on pots in support of emergency workers, we remain silent — both because it’s the toddler’s bedtime and because hardly anyone would hear us.Before the lockdown, we were already isolated, having recently moved from Brooklyn to the foothills of the Sierra Calderona. Here, our neighbors are mostly stray cats, cactuses and citrus farmers who sell artichokes by the kilo on the side for a couple of bucks and orange wood for cooking paella the traditional way. At 8 each night, when the world bangs on pots in support of emergency workers, we remain silent — both because it’s the toddler’s bedtime and because hardly anyone would hear us.
We’ve slowly overtaken our yard, hanging a rope between the twisted olive tree and weeping willow with a swing on it for the kids. We play countless games of Speedminton. We see our Russian neighbor through the fence walking with ski poles around and around his property, reminding me of my newly widowed mother, whose flight to come visit us was canceled when Spain shut its borders.We’ve slowly overtaken our yard, hanging a rope between the twisted olive tree and weeping willow with a swing on it for the kids. We play countless games of Speedminton. We see our Russian neighbor through the fence walking with ski poles around and around his property, reminding me of my newly widowed mother, whose flight to come visit us was canceled when Spain shut its borders.
In our silence, we’re noticing the natural soundtrack of our surroundings: the loud hum of bees, an angry orchestra of miniature violinists hiding among the hedges. There’s a new smell here, too; the sweet honeysuckle scent of orange blossoms that infuses the breeze, replacing the wild rosemary of winter, and it’s delicious. Because this is not only our first pandemic, but also our first spring here in Spain, the home we’re locked in continues to surprise us, as if we were still traveling despite being stuck.In our silence, we’re noticing the natural soundtrack of our surroundings: the loud hum of bees, an angry orchestra of miniature violinists hiding among the hedges. There’s a new smell here, too; the sweet honeysuckle scent of orange blossoms that infuses the breeze, replacing the wild rosemary of winter, and it’s delicious. Because this is not only our first pandemic, but also our first spring here in Spain, the home we’re locked in continues to surprise us, as if we were still traveling despite being stuck.
I find myself gazing out at the distant city, or the birds soaring over the hillsides, letting my mind, at least, wander. I catch glimpses of my kids, slinking between tree trunks, yodeling from a low branch, munching on the mint we just planted together, or talking to themselves flat on their backs in the grass, looking at the empty sky. (No planes fly by anymore, though we’re minutes from the airport, to my son’s dismay.) I wonder how much noise, silence, solitude and chaos they’re each absorbing. How much are they suffering? How much are they enjoying?I find myself gazing out at the distant city, or the birds soaring over the hillsides, letting my mind, at least, wander. I catch glimpses of my kids, slinking between tree trunks, yodeling from a low branch, munching on the mint we just planted together, or talking to themselves flat on their backs in the grass, looking at the empty sky. (No planes fly by anymore, though we’re minutes from the airport, to my son’s dismay.) I wonder how much noise, silence, solitude and chaos they’re each absorbing. How much are they suffering? How much are they enjoying?
Updated June 16, 2020Updated June 16, 2020
The steroid, dexamethasone, is the first treatment shown to reduce mortality in severely ill patients, according to scientists in Britain. The drug appears to reduce inflammation caused by the immune system, protecting the tissues. In the study, dexamethasone reduced deaths of patients on ventilators by one-third, and deaths of patients on oxygen by one-fifth.
The coronavirus emergency relief package gives many American workers paid leave if they need to take time off because of the virus. It gives qualified workers two weeks of paid sick leave if they are ill, quarantined or seeking diagnosis or preventive care for coronavirus, or if they are caring for sick family members. It gives 12 weeks of paid leave to people caring for children whose schools are closed or whose child care provider is unavailable because of the coronavirus. It is the first time the United States has had widespread federally mandated paid leave, and includes people who don’t typically get such benefits, like part-time and gig economy workers. But the measure excludes at least half of private-sector workers, including those at the country’s largest employers, and gives small employers significant leeway to deny leave.The coronavirus emergency relief package gives many American workers paid leave if they need to take time off because of the virus. It gives qualified workers two weeks of paid sick leave if they are ill, quarantined or seeking diagnosis or preventive care for coronavirus, or if they are caring for sick family members. It gives 12 weeks of paid leave to people caring for children whose schools are closed or whose child care provider is unavailable because of the coronavirus. It is the first time the United States has had widespread federally mandated paid leave, and includes people who don’t typically get such benefits, like part-time and gig economy workers. But the measure excludes at least half of private-sector workers, including those at the country’s largest employers, and gives small employers significant leeway to deny leave.
So far, the evidence seems to show it does. A widely cited paper published in April suggests that people are most infectious about two days before the onset of coronavirus symptoms and estimated that 44 percent of new infections were a result of transmission from people who were not yet showing symptoms. Recently, a top expert at the World Health Organization stated that transmission of the coronavirus by people who did not have symptoms was “very rare,” but she later walked back that statement.So far, the evidence seems to show it does. A widely cited paper published in April suggests that people are most infectious about two days before the onset of coronavirus symptoms and estimated that 44 percent of new infections were a result of transmission from people who were not yet showing symptoms. Recently, a top expert at the World Health Organization stated that transmission of the coronavirus by people who did not have symptoms was “very rare,” but she later walked back that statement.
Touching contaminated objects and then infecting ourselves with the germs is not typically how the virus spreads. But it can happen. A number of studies of flu, rhinovirus, coronavirus and other microbes have shown that respiratory illnesses, including the new coronavirus, can spread by touching contaminated surfaces, particularly in places like day care centers, offices and hospitals. But a long chain of events has to happen for the disease to spread that way. The best way to protect yourself from coronavirus — whether it’s surface transmission or close human contact — is still social distancing, washing your hands, not touching your face and wearing masks.Touching contaminated objects and then infecting ourselves with the germs is not typically how the virus spreads. But it can happen. A number of studies of flu, rhinovirus, coronavirus and other microbes have shown that respiratory illnesses, including the new coronavirus, can spread by touching contaminated surfaces, particularly in places like day care centers, offices and hospitals. But a long chain of events has to happen for the disease to spread that way. The best way to protect yourself from coronavirus — whether it’s surface transmission or close human contact — is still social distancing, washing your hands, not touching your face and wearing masks.
A study by European scientists is the first to document a strong statistical link between genetic variations and Covid-19, the illness caused by the coronavirus. Having Type A blood was linked to a 50 percent increase in the likelihood that a patient would need to get oxygen or to go on a ventilator, according to the new study.A study by European scientists is the first to document a strong statistical link between genetic variations and Covid-19, the illness caused by the coronavirus. Having Type A blood was linked to a 50 percent increase in the likelihood that a patient would need to get oxygen or to go on a ventilator, according to the new study.
The unemployment rate fell to 13.3 percent in May, the Labor Department said on June 5, an unexpected improvement in the nation’s job market as hiring rebounded faster than economists expected. Economists had forecast the unemployment rate to increase to as much as 20 percent, after it hit 14.7 percent in April, which was the highest since the government began keeping official statistics after World War II. But the unemployment rate dipped instead, with employers adding 2.5 million jobs, after more than 20 million jobs were lost in April.The unemployment rate fell to 13.3 percent in May, the Labor Department said on June 5, an unexpected improvement in the nation’s job market as hiring rebounded faster than economists expected. Economists had forecast the unemployment rate to increase to as much as 20 percent, after it hit 14.7 percent in April, which was the highest since the government began keeping official statistics after World War II. But the unemployment rate dipped instead, with employers adding 2.5 million jobs, after more than 20 million jobs were lost in April.
Mass protests against police brutality that have brought thousands of people onto the streets in cities across America are raising the specter of new coronavirus outbreaks, prompting political leaders, physicians and public health experts to warn that the crowds could cause a surge in cases. While many political leaders affirmed the right of protesters to express themselves, they urged the demonstrators to wear face masks and maintain social distancing, both to protect themselves and to prevent further community spread of the virus. Some infectious disease experts were reassured by the fact that the protests were held outdoors, saying the open air settings could mitigate the risk of transmission.Mass protests against police brutality that have brought thousands of people onto the streets in cities across America are raising the specter of new coronavirus outbreaks, prompting political leaders, physicians and public health experts to warn that the crowds could cause a surge in cases. While many political leaders affirmed the right of protesters to express themselves, they urged the demonstrators to wear face masks and maintain social distancing, both to protect themselves and to prevent further community spread of the virus. Some infectious disease experts were reassured by the fact that the protests were held outdoors, saying the open air settings could mitigate the risk of transmission.
States are reopening bit by bit. This means that more public spaces are available for use and more and more businesses are being allowed to open again. The federal government is largely leaving the decision up to states, and some state leaders are leaving the decision up to local authorities. Even if you aren’t being told to stay at home, it’s still a good idea to limit trips outside and your interaction with other people.States are reopening bit by bit. This means that more public spaces are available for use and more and more businesses are being allowed to open again. The federal government is largely leaving the decision up to states, and some state leaders are leaving the decision up to local authorities. Even if you aren’t being told to stay at home, it’s still a good idea to limit trips outside and your interaction with other people.
Common symptoms include fever, a dry cough, fatigue and difficulty breathing or shortness of breath. Some of these symptoms overlap with those of the flu, making detection difficult, but runny noses and stuffy sinuses are less common. The C.D.C. has also added chills, muscle pain, sore throat, headache and a new loss of the sense of taste or smell as symptoms to look out for. Most people fall ill five to seven days after exposure, but symptoms may appear in as few as two days or as many as 14 days.Common symptoms include fever, a dry cough, fatigue and difficulty breathing or shortness of breath. Some of these symptoms overlap with those of the flu, making detection difficult, but runny noses and stuffy sinuses are less common. The C.D.C. has also added chills, muscle pain, sore throat, headache and a new loss of the sense of taste or smell as symptoms to look out for. Most people fall ill five to seven days after exposure, but symptoms may appear in as few as two days or as many as 14 days.
If air travel is unavoidable, there are some steps you can take to protect yourself. Most important: Wash your hands often, and stop touching your face. If possible, choose a window seat. A study from Emory University found that during flu season, the safest place to sit on a plane is by a window, as people sitting in window seats had less contact with potentially sick people. Disinfect hard surfaces. When you get to your seat and your hands are clean, use disinfecting wipes to clean the hard surfaces at your seat like the head and arm rest, the seatbelt buckle, the remote, screen, seat back pocket and the tray table. If the seat is hard and nonporous or leather or pleather, you can wipe that down, too. (Using wipes on upholstered seats could lead to a wet seat and spreading of germs rather than killing them.)If air travel is unavoidable, there are some steps you can take to protect yourself. Most important: Wash your hands often, and stop touching your face. If possible, choose a window seat. A study from Emory University found that during flu season, the safest place to sit on a plane is by a window, as people sitting in window seats had less contact with potentially sick people. Disinfect hard surfaces. When you get to your seat and your hands are clean, use disinfecting wipes to clean the hard surfaces at your seat like the head and arm rest, the seatbelt buckle, the remote, screen, seat back pocket and the tray table. If the seat is hard and nonporous or leather or pleather, you can wipe that down, too. (Using wipes on upholstered seats could lead to a wet seat and spreading of germs rather than killing them.)
Taking one’s temperature to look for signs of fever is not as easy as it sounds, as “normal” temperature numbers can vary, but generally, keep an eye out for a temperature of 100.5 degrees Fahrenheit or higher. If you don’t have a thermometer (they can be pricey these days), there are other ways to figure out if you have a fever, or are at risk of Covid-19 complications.Taking one’s temperature to look for signs of fever is not as easy as it sounds, as “normal” temperature numbers can vary, but generally, keep an eye out for a temperature of 100.5 degrees Fahrenheit or higher. If you don’t have a thermometer (they can be pricey these days), there are other ways to figure out if you have a fever, or are at risk of Covid-19 complications.
The C.D.C. has recommended that all Americans wear cloth masks if they go out in public. This is a shift in federal guidance reflecting new concerns that the coronavirus is being spread by infected people who have no symptoms. Until now, the C.D.C., like the W.H.O., has advised that ordinary people don’t need to wear masks unless they are sick and coughing. Part of the reason was to preserve medical-grade masks for health care workers who desperately need them at a time when they are in continuously short supply. Masks don’t replace hand washing and social distancing.The C.D.C. has recommended that all Americans wear cloth masks if they go out in public. This is a shift in federal guidance reflecting new concerns that the coronavirus is being spread by infected people who have no symptoms. Until now, the C.D.C., like the W.H.O., has advised that ordinary people don’t need to wear masks unless they are sick and coughing. Part of the reason was to preserve medical-grade masks for health care workers who desperately need them at a time when they are in continuously short supply. Masks don’t replace hand washing and social distancing.
If you’ve been exposed to the coronavirus or think you have, and have a fever or symptoms like a cough or difficulty breathing, call a doctor. They should give you advice on whether you should be tested, how to get tested, and how to seek medical treatment without potentially infecting or exposing others.If you’ve been exposed to the coronavirus or think you have, and have a fever or symptoms like a cough or difficulty breathing, call a doctor. They should give you advice on whether you should be tested, how to get tested, and how to seek medical treatment without potentially infecting or exposing others.
If you’re sick and you think you’ve been exposed to the new coronavirus, the C.D.C. recommends that you call your healthcare provider and explain your symptoms and fears. They will decide if you need to be tested. Keep in mind that there’s a chance — because of a lack of testing kits or because you’re asymptomatic, for instance — you won’t be able to get tested.If you’re sick and you think you’ve been exposed to the new coronavirus, the C.D.C. recommends that you call your healthcare provider and explain your symptoms and fears. They will decide if you need to be tested. Keep in mind that there’s a chance — because of a lack of testing kits or because you’re asymptomatic, for instance — you won’t be able to get tested.
My daughter finds me in my pitch-black office at 11 at night, slipping in like some forest creature, asking if it’s too late to take a “quick bubble bath.” I look up at her, her face glowing in the white light of my laptop, a small, new moon. Her hair is tangled with bits of twigs and leaves. “Too late?” I repeat, as if asking her. She looks like she’s just come back from camping. Time is off-track; it feels both pressing and irrelevant. I let her soak with a book in steaming hot water hours past her bedtime.My daughter finds me in my pitch-black office at 11 at night, slipping in like some forest creature, asking if it’s too late to take a “quick bubble bath.” I look up at her, her face glowing in the white light of my laptop, a small, new moon. Her hair is tangled with bits of twigs and leaves. “Too late?” I repeat, as if asking her. She looks like she’s just come back from camping. Time is off-track; it feels both pressing and irrelevant. I let her soak with a book in steaming hot water hours past her bedtime.
As a child, I lived through political unrest, embargoes, invasions, dozens of moves. In Haiti, electricity, fresh apples and gasoline were scarce. We lacked running water. When I was a toddler, my family fled war-torn Cairo. At my daughter’s age, I spent my days wandering the dirt roads and cork forests of Morocco unsupervised, plotting to rescue donkeys. And though we led an almost luxurious lifestyle, thanks to my mother’s diplomatic job, I was surrounded by suffering, oppression and poverty.As a child, I lived through political unrest, embargoes, invasions, dozens of moves. In Haiti, electricity, fresh apples and gasoline were scarce. We lacked running water. When I was a toddler, my family fled war-torn Cairo. At my daughter’s age, I spent my days wandering the dirt roads and cork forests of Morocco unsupervised, plotting to rescue donkeys. And though we led an almost luxurious lifestyle, thanks to my mother’s diplomatic job, I was surrounded by suffering, oppression and poverty.
I grew up with my German grandmother, too, and her stories of Hitler, the Russians, the rations and both world wars. She could make delicious dishes out of almost nothing but flour and potatoes. My American grandfather, orphaned from disease, erased each note he wrote to reuse the same pads of paper, decades after surviving the Great Depression. With all this embedded in me, as long as we are relatively healthy I can’t look around at our current situation and feel any true suffering or concern for our well-being.I grew up with my German grandmother, too, and her stories of Hitler, the Russians, the rations and both world wars. She could make delicious dishes out of almost nothing but flour and potatoes. My American grandfather, orphaned from disease, erased each note he wrote to reuse the same pads of paper, decades after surviving the Great Depression. With all this embedded in me, as long as we are relatively healthy I can’t look around at our current situation and feel any true suffering or concern for our well-being.
Despite the trials of the last year — leaving behind family, friends, neighbors and our home of 20 years, losing my aunt, losing my father, saying goodbye to our beloved dog and now facing this pandemic — we’ve been centering on staying calm and hopeful and looking ahead. And following months of searching, we recently found a new puppy to welcome into our lives, so we’ve been focusing on his arrival and what to call him. After much deliberation, my daughter has finally settled on a name — a nod to this uncertain time in which he’ll be joining our family. She’s calling him Lucky.Despite the trials of the last year — leaving behind family, friends, neighbors and our home of 20 years, losing my aunt, losing my father, saying goodbye to our beloved dog and now facing this pandemic — we’ve been centering on staying calm and hopeful and looking ahead. And following months of searching, we recently found a new puppy to welcome into our lives, so we’ve been focusing on his arrival and what to call him. After much deliberation, my daughter has finally settled on a name — a nod to this uncertain time in which he’ll be joining our family. She’s calling him Lucky.