Rev Richard Coles says he has received abuse since death of partner

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Broadcaster says small number of Christians have messaged to say Rev David Coles ‘is in hell’

The broadcaster and priest Rev Richard Coles has revealed he has been subjected to abuse since the death of his partner.

The former Communards musician and Strictly Come Dancing contestant said he had received messages from a minority of people, including one who said his partner was “in hell” and that he “will follow”.

Coles announced on Tuesday that his civil partner, Rev David Coles, had died after a long illness.

Two days later, Coles tweeted that there had been “99.99999% loveliness from people and then a small but lively correspondence from Christians who wish me to know that D is in hell and I will follow. It’s like the Khmer Rouge suddenly popping up in a stream of condolence.”

He said: “A letter, courageously unsigned, begins: ‘Dear Mr Coles, I can’t begin to tell you how happy I am to hear of the death of your partner...’.”

In a follow-up tweet, he added: “It continues: ‘I have been praying for your pain for a long time now...’.”

A short while later he tweeted: “The horrible letters: they don’t touch me. I am right now an expert in pain, the real kind, and these are paper darts among the incoming, and just leave me mildly curious about the state of mind of the writer.”

Along with the tweet, he posted a picture of a pot of green ink, a reference to the journalistic term “green ink brigade” about hate mail largely being sent into news organisations written in the coloured pen.

Dianne Buswell, Coles’ former Strictly partner, tweeted: “Disgusting thinking of you x.”

According to Coles’ official website, he and David lived together in their vicarage, “which is gradually being destroyed by ... dachshunds Daisy, Pongo, Audrey and Horatio”.

The couple met in 2007 after a sermon and Coles has spoken openly about their celibacy. He previously told Christian Today: “Of course it has its challenges and sacrifices ... We live in good standing with the teaching of the church, but I wouldn’t wish that to imply that I saw that as a good and noble thing, because I don’t, but it is currently where we are.”