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| The message is clear, we belong together By Denise Winterman BBC News Magazine Few people survive childhood without their parents committing a major sartorial sin against them. Be it matching outfits or frilly frocks, why do they do it? | The message is clear, we belong together By Denise Winterman BBC News Magazine Few people survive childhood without their parents committing a major sartorial sin against them. Be it matching outfits or frilly frocks, why do they do it? |
| Coordinating outfits to rival the Von Trapps or knickerbockers last seen on Little Lord Fauntleroy, parents can really stitch you up when it comes to how they dress you when you're young. 'MUM MADE ME WEAR IT' Send in pictures of your childhood fashion faux pasE-mail: yourpics@bbc.co.uk, subject CHILDHOOD OUTFITSMMS from UK: 61124Int MMS: +44 7725 100100 Terms and conditions | Coordinating outfits to rival the Von Trapps or knickerbockers last seen on Little Lord Fauntleroy, parents can really stitch you up when it comes to how they dress you when you're young. 'MUM MADE ME WEAR IT' Send in pictures of your childhood fashion faux pasE-mail: yourpics@bbc.co.uk, subject CHILDHOOD OUTFITSMMS from UK: 61124Int MMS: +44 7725 100100 Terms and conditions |
| Lurking in every family photo album are the horrors - starched collars, clip-on ties, knitted tank tops. Assuming your parents didn't dress you in the dark, you have to wonder what they were thinking. | Lurking in every family photo album are the horrors - starched collars, clip-on ties, knitted tank tops. Assuming your parents didn't dress you in the dark, you have to wonder what they were thinking. |
| But some trends have an enduring appeal, as a new exhibition of children's fashion over the last 300 years shows. | But some trends have an enduring appeal, as a new exhibition of children's fashion over the last 300 years shows. |
| "The Victorians loved dressing their children in matching outfits and people still do today," says a spokeswoman for the V&A Museum of Childhood, where the exhibition is being held. | "The Victorians loved dressing their children in matching outfits and people still do today," says a spokeswoman for the V&A Museum of Childhood, where the exhibition is being held. |
| But what do these trends tell us about the parents who follow them? | But what do these trends tell us about the parents who follow them? |
| MATCHING OUTFITS Regardless of the age, shape or size of their offspring, at some stage most parents think coordinating their outfits is a fun idea.The Beckhams like a bit of coordination | MATCHING OUTFITS Regardless of the age, shape or size of their offspring, at some stage most parents think coordinating their outfits is a fun idea.The Beckhams like a bit of coordination |
| But what they are really doing is creating an identity for the family - and managing its public image. | But what they are really doing is creating an identity for the family - and managing its public image. |
| "When people dress their children in matching clothes they are creating a uniform for them," says Dr Martin Skinner, a social psychologist at Warwick University. | "When people dress their children in matching clothes they are creating a uniform for them," says Dr Martin Skinner, a social psychologist at Warwick University. |
| "It's about creating a family identity and also controlling it. Children are seen as a reflection of their parents and matching their clothes can look clean and disciplined." | "It's about creating a family identity and also controlling it. Children are seen as a reflection of their parents and matching their clothes can look clean and disciplined." |
| DRESSING A CHILD LIKE YOURSELF There were gasps of astonishment when actress Danniella Westbrook dressed her daughter in a Burberry-checked outfit to match her own. | DRESSING A CHILD LIKE YOURSELF There were gasps of astonishment when actress Danniella Westbrook dressed her daughter in a Burberry-checked outfit to match her own. |
| Taste issues aside, she was doing what many others do - creating a mini-me. Girl or boy, mother or father, the motivation behind such a move comes down to possession and identity. | Taste issues aside, she was doing what many others do - creating a mini-me. Girl or boy, mother or father, the motivation behind such a move comes down to possession and identity. |
| "It's about telling the world the child is yours and belongs to you," says psychologist Ros Taylor. | "It's about telling the world the child is yours and belongs to you," says psychologist Ros Taylor. |
| "It's like you are saying they are a chip off the old block. The child is a blank canvas and you are projecting yourself on to them." | "It's like you are saying they are a chip off the old block. The child is a blank canvas and you are projecting yourself on to them." |
| BYGONE FASHIONS Keeping it traditional Your mother's one-woman revival of velvet knickerbockers may still be a painful memory, but society is really to blame not her. | BYGONE FASHIONS Keeping it traditional Your mother's one-woman revival of velvet knickerbockers may still be a painful memory, but society is really to blame not her. |
| Avoiding fashions of the day and going for a more traditional look is often about taking a stance against what is perceived to be declining social standards. | Avoiding fashions of the day and going for a more traditional look is often about taking a stance against what is perceived to be declining social standards. |
| "It's about harking back to a bygone age, what modern parents see as an age of innocence," says Dr Skinner. "It's about wanting to maintain certain standards. | "It's about harking back to a bygone age, what modern parents see as an age of innocence," says Dr Skinner. "It's about wanting to maintain certain standards. |
| "It's also about not wanting your child to grow up too quickly, not wanting their childhood to end before it should." | "It's also about not wanting your child to grow up too quickly, not wanting their childhood to end before it should." |
| DRESSING KIDS LIKE GROWN UPS | DRESSING KIDS LIKE GROWN UPS |
| For some parents only the latest Dolce & Gabbana jacket or Versace dress will do for their children. | For some parents only the latest Dolce & Gabbana jacket or Versace dress will do for their children. |
| Forget the playground, what influences their kid's clothes is Sienna Miller's latest ensemble. This adult look is often down to a parent's own unfulfilled hopes and dreams. | Forget the playground, what influences their kid's clothes is Sienna Miller's latest ensemble. This adult look is often down to a parent's own unfulfilled hopes and dreams. |
| "When a parent dresses their child as an adult it's about how they would really like to look," says Ms Taylor. | "When a parent dresses their child as an adult it's about how they would really like to look," says Ms Taylor. |
| "It's usually about the latest fashions and coolest trends. They are turning the child into what they wanted to be, but usually didn't become." | "It's usually about the latest fashions and coolest trends. They are turning the child into what they wanted to be, but usually didn't become." |
| GENDER EXTREMES | GENDER EXTREMES |
| When it comes to dressing their kids, just two colours exist for some parents - pink for girls and blue for boys. | |
| There's definitely no chance of mistaking the sex of these youngsters, with daughters dressed head-to-toe in candyfloss colours. These so-called "pink princesses" are making headlines and prompting debate, with Disney held responsible for the popularity of this type of look.A girl possibly? | |
| Emphasising gender to such an extent can come down to trying to control who your child will become when they grow up. | Emphasising gender to such an extent can come down to trying to control who your child will become when they grow up. |
| "Parents often construct an idea of how they want their child to develop from a very early age," says Dr Skinner. | "Parents often construct an idea of how they want their child to develop from a very early age," says Dr Skinner. |
| "Gender is a big part of this and dressing their child according to gender stereotypes sends out a message about they see them and how they want people to react to them. " | "Gender is a big part of this and dressing their child according to gender stereotypes sends out a message about they see them and how they want people to react to them. " |
| Send us a picture of your own childhood fashion faux pas - instructions in the factbox above. Or add your comments on this story, using the form below. | Send us a picture of your own childhood fashion faux pas - instructions in the factbox above. Or add your comments on this story, using the form below. |